Cynthia M.
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Cynthia has 11 years of experience as a published writer. At age 28, her work has already appeared in many national magazines. Her subjects range from wedding content to celebrity interviews. In 1997, Cynthia earned her paralegal degree while maintaining a writing career.
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Articles by this Author
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Writing Wedding Invitations
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When it comes to writing wedding invitations, there is no such thing as a blanket text that works for everyone. The reason is because writing wedding invitations has become an art and a creative way to express the desire of both the bride and groom that a particular guest join them in celebrating their special day. The most traditional way of writing wedding invitations is similar to the following: Mr. & Mrs. John Smith request the honor of your presence at the marriage of their daughter, Name of the Bride to Name of the Groom Saturday, the tenth day of June two thousand and six five o’clock in the afternoon Name of the Locations City & State With this being the most traditional example of writing wedding invitations, the wording can be changed and rewritten to make the invite more tailored to suit the ceremony. One common variation of the example above is the addition of the name of the groom’s parents. When it comes to writing wedding invitations, the best approach is to simply do whatever you feel will be best for both families. In some situations, writing wedding invitations has become much less formal. An example of an informal invitation would be th following: Today we will begin a new chapter as we join together in marriage and we would be honored if you would attend our wedding ceremony. Name of the Bride & Groom When writing wedding invitations for your ceremony, keep in mind that this is the first announcement many will see with regard to your ceremony. Your invitations should reflect the theme of your wedding (i.e., formal or informal). If your ceremony will be formal, a more traditional wording is recommended. If the wedding is to be informal or casual, have a little fun with the wording and make it your own in terms of writing wedding invitations. As the wedding invitations are mailed, it is common for the guests to be provided with an RSVP postcard that is to be returned to the couple. This card asks that the invitee confirm whether or not he/she will be attending and, if applicable, the name of their guest. It is a good idea to mail the wedding invitations at least two months prior to the ceremony, which will allow friends and family plenty of time to make their travel arrangements or request the day off from their place of employment.
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Wedding Veils
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Finding the right wedding veil can be a task, but it’s not impossible. Even with the wide selection of wedding veils, lengths, designs, etc., you can learn the best ways to select between having one custom made or buying it straight off of the rack. When searching for wedding veils, be sure to keep in mind the design of your gown and the style of your wedding. Is it formal or more casual? As a general rule, most brides prefer that their wedding veils compliment the style of their dress, which means selecting from sequins, flowers, pearls, etc. If you are getting married on the beach, perhaps a simple floral design would be among the wedding veils that would best compliment your semi-formal setting. If you are having a traditional ceremony, perhaps a tiara veil would be the better choice. For women who have bangs, the most popular choice in wedding veils are those that feature a wide headband. Because wedding veils are created in different lengths, it is important to consider the design and styling of your wedding gown for a perfect match. Shoulder length wedding veils can be used in either a formal or informal setting, while elbow length wedding veils are commonly used for gowns without a train. The most popular choice of all wedding veils is that which measures fingertip length. Why? Because they are versatile in that they may be used for either formal or informal weddings and are the most commonly made designs. Wedding veils can be edged in numerous ways, including pearls, satin ribbon, rolled edge or simply plain. It is important to note that wedding veils will become heavier with more edging detail, which may cause it to be weighted down if not chosen carefully. Full veils will not usually feature edging because they run the risk of being pulled down flat and losing some of their ‘fluff’ if they were to have edging. A majority of wedding veils are designed to be detachable, which makes them ideal for formal weddings and the reception as well. When shopping for wedding veils, the best choice will be one that expresses your individuality and celebrates your beauty on a day that will forever be etched in your mind as one of the most significant. Depending on your location and choice of styling, wedding veils can cost anywhere from $50.00 to $200.00. In some cases, designer veils can cost even more. If these prices are a little beyond the budget, consider making your own veil with supplies found in almost every crafting section at the local retail or specialty store.
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Finding The Latest Wedding Gown Trends
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If you are planning a wedding, then you will probably be interested in learning the latest wedding gown trends. The good news is that there are plenty of options, whether you live in a rural area that doesn’t even have cable or you live in a bustling city. No matter where you are, there is a way to learn about the most current wedding gown trends and how to make your wedding a real fantasy come true. When it comes to searching for the current wedding gown trends, the first place to look is in one of the latest issues of bridal magazines. Various dress styles, along with information on coordinating your favorite style with your body type, and other information is included in most national publications. Another terrific way of finding out about the most popular wedding gown trends is to attend a local bridal fashion show. Typically held in the spring and summer months, most areas host some type of event to showcase the latest wedding gowns as provided by local businesses and boutiques. These are free to attend and will give everyone not only the opportunity to see a variety of dresses, but also to see how they actually look while being worn. Quite often, a garment can look very different on an individual as opposed to hanging on a rack. If you are still searching for the latest in wedding gown trends, consider turning to the world wide web for your research. The best way to find new wedding gown trends is to simply go directly to the source, which is wedding gown designers. While at the designer’s website, take a look at their new line of gowns and compare those with other popular designs featured elsewhere on the web or on magazine cover pages. When it comes to finding the newest and most popular wedding gown trends, there are a variety of options as shown here. Once you find that perfect dress, you can either order online directly from the designer or a boutique or you can contact a local boutique to see if they carry that particular line of wedding gowns. Virtually any specialty bridal boutique can custom order a dress to fit you perfectly, which will ease the minds of those who often are limited by their selection due to limited sizes. As a final thought to shopping for the latest in wedding gown trends, the most popular of all will be the one that makes you feel beautiful.
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Top 5 Wedding Gown Tips
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When it comes to finding the right wedding gown, many brides are filled with excitement and anxiety at the same time. How much will the gown cost? Will I find the perfect style that best fits my body type? What if I find the perfect dress, but cannot afford it? These are all common questions that every woman asks herself, but with a few wedding gown tips, you will be ready for that graceful stroll down the aisle in style. # 1 of 5 Wedding Gown Tips Always remember that you are not limited to selecting a gown at the local boutique. The internet is often the best place to find the widest variety of sizes and styles, along with the most competitive pricing. # 2 of 5 Wedding Gown Tips If you cannot afford the wedding gown of your dreams, plan early enough so that you can put it on layaway and make regular monthly payments. This isn’t an option that is widely known, but many boutiques will reserve your dress while you make payments toward the total purchase price. This opens up a lot of options for every bride, including those who are on a budget. # 3 of 5 Wedding Gown Tips Make sure to select a gown that best fits your body type. It’s one thing to see a beautiful gown in a magazine or on a famous face, but what looks good on one woman may not be the best for another. The reason is because we are all unique and, therefore, we may require different styles in order to achieve our perfect look. If you have the time, visit your local boutique and try on several gowns in various styles. Don’t limit yourself to just one style without even trying on the others. Sometimes the perfect gown doesn’t show it’s true beauty until it’s being worn. # 4 of 5 Wedding Gown Tips Once you have the wedding gown of your dreams, you will have to take extra care to keep it in perfect condition until the big day arrives. The best way to do this is to make sure it is laid flat as opposed to being hung on a hanger. This promotes pulling and stretching, which can reek havoc on any garment. # 5 of 5 Wedding Gown Tips When the wedding is over and life returns to normal, you will want to preserve your wedding dress for years to come. Don’t just toss it in the closet or in a garment bag and shove it in the closet or under your bed. Instead, be sure to have it professionally cleaned and stored in a box. Avoid storing your wedding dress in places that are exposed to moisture, such as a basement or attic, and avoid places that are prone to extreme hot or cold temperatures.
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Wedding Gown Care
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When it comes to storing a wedding gown, the proper care can make the difference in a family heirloom that will be worn by future generations and a gown that walked down the aisle for it’s first and last time on your wedding day. When storing a wedding gown, always remember to make sure that it is laid down flat rather than hung on a hanger. The reason is because hanging a dress will cause pulling and stretching, which will likely be most obvious in the shoulder seams, and waistline. The next important tip to keep in mind when storing a wedding gown is to avoid storage in an area that is damp or humid. Additionally, extreme temperatures that include either hot or cold are to be avoided when storing a wedding gown. All of these promote moisture, which can reek havoc on any type of garment. Instead, you should be storing a wedding gown in an area that is a comfortable room temperature, but not in an area that is exposed to bright lights or the sun. Either of these can cause the dress to turn yellow. Storing a wedding gown is done to preserve it’s quality and beauty. Even though the gown is stunning and you want to look at it every second of the day, avoid frequent peeking. When exposed to the air, the gown is susceptible to possible stains and other damage that is caused by a breakdown of the fiber. Rather than a daily check, consider taking a quick look at the dress on one occasion every few months. When you purchase a wedding gown, it will likely be placed in a plastic garment bag. While this is perfect for transporting the gown home, it is not ideal for storing a wedding gown. Instead, a dress box or breathable garment bag is the best idea for storing a wedding gown. A plastic bag will trap moisture that could lead to serious damage to the gown itself. Before storing a wedding gown, make sure that it has been properly cleaned and is free of perfumes or other element. A professional cleaning can be very expensive, but storing a wedding gown without having it cleaned is never a good idea. When it comes time to hand this prized gown on to your daughter or granddaughter, you will want to have a dress that is just as beautiful as the day it was purchased.
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Wedding Gift Etiquette
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An important part of wedding gift etiquette is so much more than simply knowing what to buy. In fact, it is a practice that involves knowing when and how to send gifts, how to select the right one within your budget and knowing exactly what the newlyweds want. With a few simple tips, you will be a gift-giving pro in no time at all. Wedding Gift Etiquette Tip # 1 Even if you are not planning to attend the ceremony, always send a wedding gift. Wedding Gift Etiquette Tip # 2 If you are not planning on attending the wedding, send your gift along with the RSVP card. Wedding Gift Etiquette Tip # 3 When selecting a wedding gift, be sure to spend within your means. An average cost is typically $100.00 per person. If this is more than you can afford, consider purchasing a gift basket filled with items that both the bride and groom will enjoy. Wedding Gift Etiquette Tip # 4 Always ask the couple where they are registered. This will help you to know exactly what they need or want and you will know that your gift is something that the couple had hoped to receive. Wedding Gift Etiquette Tip # 5 As a general rule, you have up to one year after the wedding to send a gift. You can either send it to the bride’s home before the wedding or the couple’s home after they are married. Wedding Gift Etiquette Tip # 6 If you plan to bring a gift to the reception, be sure to place a card inside the box incase the outside card becomes detached or lost. This will help the couple to be sure they know who to thank. Wedding Gift Etiquette Tip # 7 If the ceremony is out of town and everyone is planning to travel for the nuptials, avoid taking your gift on the trip. Instead, mail it to the bride’s or groom’s parent’s home. Wedding Gift Etiquette Tip # 8 Do not re-gift an item that you received at your own wedding. Many people do this not only for weddings, but also for Christmas and other holidays. Quite simply, it’s just poor taste to re-gift an item that was purchased with thought for you or your family. Instead, put your own thought into a gift for the couple that will fit their lifestyle. As you can see, wedding gift etiquette often employs several common sense methods. From the thoughtfulness of giving a gift whether or not you can attend the actual wedding to where to send the wedding gift if you cannot attend, wedding gift etiquette is just another way of showing the newlyweds how much you support their happy lives together.
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Wedding Attire Etiquette
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To many, wedding attire etiquette can be very confusing. Individuals often find the location and season of the ceremony to often hinder their ability in knowing just what to wear. In general, there are a few wedding attire etiquette tips that can help you to make that difficult decision a little easier. Wedding Attire Etiquette Tip # 1 If you are the bride and are attempting to select bridesmaid dresses, make sure that they coordinate with your wedding gown in both style and elegance. Wedding Attire Etiquette Tip # 2 Did you know that the length of the bridesmaid dresses will largely depend on the time of day and even the location of the ceremony? Generally, floor length bridesmaid dresses are reserved for indoor and evening weddings. Knee length gowns are typically found at informal or outdoor ceremonies. Wedding Attire Etiquette Tip # 3 If you are a guest who will be attending an upcoming wedding, keep in mind that the attire should be formal. Men should wear suits and women should wear cocktail dresses. The only exception is if the invitation indicates otherwise. As for accessories, women should carry a small handbag rather than a purse. Wedding Attire Etiquette Tip # 4 Although not commonly thought of as proper wedding attire, it is acceptable to wear black providing it is accompanied by accessories with color. This may include a pin, scarf or blazer. Wedding Attire Etiquette Tip # 5 As wedding guests, shoe comfort is essential. Depending on the location of the ceremony, there may be a lot of walking involved. A country or beach wedding, for instance, may require a short stroll to the ceremony spot. Men will commonly wear dress shoes, but women will have the option of choosing shoes with or without heels. It is best to choose a shoe that you will be able to walk or dance in comfortably. If you will be walking through grass, which is often the case of an outdoor or country wedding, consider avoiding an open-toe design. When it comes to wedding attire etiquette, the best way of making sure that you are on the same page is to follow the instructions (if noted) on the invitation. Generally, the type of attire requested will be noted. For those who are still in doubt and are concerned about upholding the proper wedding attire etiquette, a quick telephone call to the bride or groom will resolve any questions that may have regarding the style of the ceremony.
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5 Ways To Find Vintage Wedding Gowns
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If you are looking for vintage wedding gowns, you may feel as though you are fighting a losing battle. Most bridal boutiques, both online and local, offer only the latest trends in wedding gowns. Fear not because all hope isn’t lost. Instead of looking everywhere for vintage wedding gowns, your time would be better spent looking in the right places. Below are five good examples of how to find vintage wedding gowns for your special day. Antique Stores. Whether you are strolling down the cobblestone streets in your quaint little town while peeking in and out of antique stores or you have to search online shops, vintage wedding gowns are often found in just this type of store. While most people expect to find old furniture and glassware, the biggest surprise item may be found hanging on the rack in the form of a wedding gown. Antique Shows. Every year, antique shows pop up in local cities and draw hundreds or thousands of visitors. In an effort to bring in the most business, antique dealers bring out their best merchandise and this may include vintage wedding gowns. If they do not have them on hand, there’s no harm in asking each of the dealers if they have any vintage wedding gowns in their store. If they do, the dealer will likely offer their business card or contact information so that you may contact them once the show is over. Estate Sales. Just as the name implies, an estate sale offers anyone the opportunity to purchase items from an estate. Everything from glassware and furniture to books, clothing and jewelry is available for the right price. An estate sale is often one of the best places to find vintage wedding gowns. Auctions. Both online and local auctions can provide a wonderful way to obtain all kinds of treasured items, including vintage wedding gowns. One of the most exciting aspects of an auction is that the buyer gets to set the price. Antique Magazines. Quite often, magazines offer a classified ad section where individuals can offer to buy, sell or trade any type of item relating to the magazine’s subject matter. In the case of antique magazines, vintage wedding gowns may very well find themselves into the pages of a classified ad. As you shop for vintage wedding gowns, don’t forget to consider the condition of the gown when determining what type of price you are willing to pay. Additionally, you may want to ask how it has been stored and whether or not it has been professionally cleaned before agreeing to purchase.
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How To Find Vintage Lace Veils
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If you are looking for vintage lace veils, you may feel as though you are fighting a losing battle. Most bridal boutiques, both online and local, offer only the latest trends in wedding attire and accessories. Fear not because all hope isn’t lost. Instead of looking everywhere for vintage lace veils, your time would be better spent looking in the right places. Below are five good examples of how to find vintage lace veils for your special day. Antique Stores. Whether you are strolling down the cobblestone streets in your quaint little town while peeking in and out of antique stores or you have to search online shops, vintage lace veils are often found in just this type of store. While most people expect to find old furniture and glassware, the biggest surprise item may be found hanging on the rack in the form of a wedding veil. Antique Shows. Every year, antique shows pop up in local cities and draw hundreds or thousands of visitors. In an effort to bring in the most business, antique dealers bring out their best merchandise and this may include vintage lace veils. If they do not have them on hand, there’s no harm in asking each of the dealers if they have any vintage lace veils in their store. If they do, the dealer will likely offer their business card or contact information so that you may contact them once the show is over. Estate Sales. Just as the name implies, an estate sale offers anyone the opportunity to purchase items from an estate. Everything from glassware and furniture to books, clothing and jewelry is available for the right price. An estate sale is often one of the best places to find vintage lace veils. Auctions. Both online and local auctions can provide a wonderful way to obtain all kinds of treasured items, including vintage lace veils. One of the most exciting aspects of an auction is that the buyer gets to set the price. Antique Magazines. Quite often, magazines offer a classified ad section where individuals can offer to buy, sell or trade any type of item relating to the magazine’s subject matter. In the case of antique magazines, vintage lace veils may very well find themselves into the pages of a classified ad. As you shop for vintage lace veils, don’t forget to consider the condition of the veil when determining what type of price you are willing to pay. Additionally, you may want to ask how it has been stored and whether or not it has been professionally cleaned before agreeing to purchase.
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Vera Wang Designer
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A famous fashion designer based in New York City, Vera Wang is best known for her stunning wedding gown collection. In addition to working for Ralph Lauren and being named senior fashion editor for Vogue magazine, this fashion icon once tried her hand at figure skating. After competing in the 1968 U.S. Figure Skating Championships, Wang decided to turn toward her true passion, which was in designer apparel. In 1990, Vera Wang opened her own design study in New York City with her trademark bridal collection being the main focus. Recalling her one time passion for figure skating, Vera Wang has designed competition costumes for both Nancy Kerrigan and Michelle Kwan. With her true calling as a wedding gown designer, she has created a number of specialty dresses for some of the most well known women in America. Among them, Mariah Carey, Jessica Simpson, Jennifer Lopez, Sharon Stone and Jennifer Garner. In recent years, Vera Wang expanded her clothing line to include her own fragrance and shoe collection, as well as jewelry and houseware items. In the fall of 2001, she authored ‘Vera Wang on Weddings,’ which was released under the well-known publisher Harper Collins. In the spring of 2005, the Council of the Fashion Designers of America recognized Wang as the Women’s Wear Designer of the Year. Even with all of the glamourous names that have worn wedding dresses from the Vera Wang collection, her creations are not exclusive to Hollywood’s biggest names. For those who can afford a truly luxurious designer wedding gown, Vera Wang offers her designer dresses to anyone who has the budget and the desire to wear the very best. Many of the top bridal boutiques and exclusive specialty shops carry a line of Vera Wang wedding dresses. For those that do not, they are likely able to custom order a gown according to the customer’s wishes. She is well-known for her custom designer gowns and her unique sense of style. Anyone who wants to catch a glimpse of the latest trends in Vera Wang wedding designs can visit her official website at http://www.VeraWang.com. For the woman who chooses to wear a Vera Wang original, keep in mind that it will be significantly more expensive than a typical designer gown. For exact pricing, the bride-to-be is urged to log on to Wang’s homepage or contact a local boutique that specializes in Vera Wang wedding apparel.
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Blogs by this Author
04/10/2006
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